ADVICE TO ALL GENTLEMEN.

A queen doesn't want swag;she
wants class.Learn to have a life,don't
live other people's life.Most guys
don't have a job but they know all
the party joints.They have been to
all the clubs and birthday
functions.They don't read books that
can change their lives.Some don't
even have a bank account and don't
even know what a seminar is.Some
go to church just to charge their
phones or because the Pastor will
say hug your neighbor
of the service and then he will
search for the prettiest and well
endowed girls; they don't listen to
the Pastor.I don't know how that
adds value to one's life. You can't
sleep with all the girls and go Scot
free;you can't waste people's lives
and think yours will be spared.You
can't make women cry and think you
will always smile.A man reaps
exactly what he sows. Being a 'Big
Boy' is not in wearing pencil
trousers,sunshades,holding
Blackberry, iPhone,iPad or Galaxy,
and then cross your legs.Being a
'Big Boy' means when there is a
need and people are looking for the
one who can solve or handle it,you'll
be the one.Even when they call your
number and don't get you,they come
home looking 4 you-just like David
(1Sam.16:14-23). Being a 'Big Boy'
means being RELEVANT and not a
LIABILITY!Use your time to read
good books,work on yourself as an
individual-especially if you are
single.Attend life changing
seminars, sit with scholars and not
people who discuss football as if it's
their calling.Be like Jesus who even
at the age of 12 was found seated
amongst scholars (Luke.2:42-47).Be
with people who want to go
somewhere;sit with kings and add
value to your life.Your queen should
be proud of you and not being
laughed at because all her female
friends have dated you
before.Having numerous girlfriends
has never and will never be an
achievement.Achieve socially,academ
ically and financially.Above all,love
the Lord GREATLY with all your heart
and might and He will love you
too.Never forget also that any man
can get a woman but not every man
can get a wife.The true nature of a
wife is from God alone.(Prov.19:14).

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